Frequently Asked Questions
Can an adoptive family help me financially during my pregnancy?
Yes. In Indiana, adoptive parents may provide financial assistance to birth mothers starting in the second trimester through the postpartum recovery period.
Do I get to choose the adoptive parents?
Absolutely. You’re in control of who adopts your child.
How will my medical expenses be paid?
Adoptive parents may cover your pregnancy-related medical costs. However, we encourage birth mothers to apply for Pregnancy Medicaid whenever possible.
What’s the difference between an open and closed adoption?
A closed adoption means there’s no contact between you and the adoptive parents after placement.
In an open adoption, you can choose to have some level of ongoing contact—this could include photos, updates, or even occasional visits—depending on what you and the adoptive family agree to.
Can a family member adopt my child while I keep my parental rights?
Under Indiana law, that may be possible. A family member (such as a parent or sibling) can adopt without terminating your rights, but this may not be available if the Department of Child Services is involved. All adoptive parents must pass background checks, and a home study is often required.
Do I get a lawyer to represent me?
Yes. If you wish to have your own attorney, the adoptive family may cover those legal fees.
How can I keep the Department of Child Services (DCS) from becoming involved?
Creating a written adoption plan and selecting adoptive parents early can help prevent DCS involvement—especially in cases involving prior investigations or substance use. We’ll help you notify the hospital and create a clear plan in advance.
Can I keep the father from finding out?
If you’re not married, Indiana law does not require you to name the father. A man must take legal steps to preserve his own parental rights.
Does the father have to consent to the adoption?
If you’re married, yes—your spouse’s consent is required.
If you’re unmarried, consent is generally not required unless the father has legally preserved his rights. When possible, we encourage birth fathers who are supportive to sign consent before the baby is born.
What if I want to keep my baby but can’t care for them right now?
You may be able to arrange a temporary or long-term guardianship with a trusted family member. We can help you explore that option.
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